I spent years attracting the same man with a different face. Different name, same feeling.

I gave everything I had, contorted who I was, and still ended up wondering what was wrong with me.

Nothing was wrong with me. I was just running a pattern I couldn't yet see.

I grew up with a hypercritical father whose love came with conditions.

I married a man who confirmed every belief I had about myself.

Then I fell for someone who love bombed me into thinking I'd finally broken the cycle, before systematically breaking me down.

I was so deep in my pattern that it took a literal intervention from God to get me out.

When I finally stopped trying to fix the men and started looking at what was inside me calling them in, everything changed.

That excavation wasn't easy. But what's on the other side of it is extraordinary. I now have the most incredible partner who chooses me every single day. And I finally, genuinely believe I deserve that.

That's what I built this work around.